
Proud Mama
My son is very active and rambunctious, I need some ideas for how to keep him entertained that isn't messy as I run a storage facility and have random times when the phone rings or someone comes in and needs assistance. I need activities that are OK for him to be left alone with for a short time without danger or the risk of him making a mess. Any ideas are welcome
Answer
My brother was like this. He was kicked out of play group as a toddler, and was known to climb store shelves if brought indoors. So, for a number of years, his mother would bring him to the park all day every day, where he could let out his energy.
Some indoor ideas for the situation you're talking about:
Buy a mini indoor trampoline for him to jump on (they fold up)
Let him play with some giant cardboard blocks (these are super fun, and don't hurt if thrown, as they're made of folded up cardboard)
Get him a mini tent, and give him soft toys and supplies to build a fort
Brio trains
Set him up with an activity table: drawing station, play doe station, Lego station, silly faces mirror station, puzzle station
Automatic bubble machine
Turn his favourite music on
Put on a children's CD with his favourite stories or songs
Some tips for the long run:
Make sure your child is getting enough sleep. For this age, he should be going to bed around 8PM, sleeping about 11 hrs at night, and getting a 1-2 hr nap in the early afternoon. Children often act more manic and wild when they're over-tired. A well-slept child is an easier child.
Make sure he's getting enough exercise. During his waking hours, give him plenty of opportunities to run around and get his ya-ya's out. Plenty of outdoor time to run around; a play-ground; and a foot-trike, tricycle, or bicycle with training wheels are all a 3-yr-old needs. As an extra option, if he seems ready for some structure, you might also enrol him in sports or dance lessons. Yoga, swimming, and ballet are great options.
Keep him away from refined foods such as white flour and sugar. Make sure he is getting 3 balanced meals and 3 snacks each day. Give him water to drink instead of juice (or if you do give juice, cut it with water).
Have him practice moments of stillness. Have him sit in a chair, starting with 1 minute, and gradually increase. Don't make it a punishment, but do it when he's getting too wild, to help him calm down. Children's emotions and energy can get so intense, that they don't know what to do with themselves; thus resulting in wild mania. By teaching him self-discipline (which actually means teaching) in a safe setting controlled by you, he will gradually build the skills to calm himself. You can make this activity fun by putting on some calming music, or reading him a story. It's not a punishment: it's quiet time.
My brother was like this. He was kicked out of play group as a toddler, and was known to climb store shelves if brought indoors. So, for a number of years, his mother would bring him to the park all day every day, where he could let out his energy.
Some indoor ideas for the situation you're talking about:
Buy a mini indoor trampoline for him to jump on (they fold up)
Let him play with some giant cardboard blocks (these are super fun, and don't hurt if thrown, as they're made of folded up cardboard)
Get him a mini tent, and give him soft toys and supplies to build a fort
Brio trains
Set him up with an activity table: drawing station, play doe station, Lego station, silly faces mirror station, puzzle station
Automatic bubble machine
Turn his favourite music on
Put on a children's CD with his favourite stories or songs
Some tips for the long run:
Make sure your child is getting enough sleep. For this age, he should be going to bed around 8PM, sleeping about 11 hrs at night, and getting a 1-2 hr nap in the early afternoon. Children often act more manic and wild when they're over-tired. A well-slept child is an easier child.
Make sure he's getting enough exercise. During his waking hours, give him plenty of opportunities to run around and get his ya-ya's out. Plenty of outdoor time to run around; a play-ground; and a foot-trike, tricycle, or bicycle with training wheels are all a 3-yr-old needs. As an extra option, if he seems ready for some structure, you might also enrol him in sports or dance lessons. Yoga, swimming, and ballet are great options.
Keep him away from refined foods such as white flour and sugar. Make sure he is getting 3 balanced meals and 3 snacks each day. Give him water to drink instead of juice (or if you do give juice, cut it with water).
Have him practice moments of stillness. Have him sit in a chair, starting with 1 minute, and gradually increase. Don't make it a punishment, but do it when he's getting too wild, to help him calm down. Children's emotions and energy can get so intense, that they don't know what to do with themselves; thus resulting in wild mania. By teaching him self-discipline (which actually means teaching) in a safe setting controlled by you, he will gradually build the skills to calm himself. You can make this activity fun by putting on some calming music, or reading him a story. It's not a punishment: it's quiet time.
questions about healthy living?

heather d
I am trying to lose wieght and know that crash dieting isn't for me nor does it actually work. I am 160 and 5'5, female. My ideal wieght is 130. I have been watching my calorie intake and am slowly adding in an exercise regimine, but I want to know if there is anything else I can do? I keep reading all types of online weight loss tips and books, but they all seem to have conflicting suggestions. I am also taking Hoodia, which does help me not feel hungry all the time (and I am taking the minium dosage)
Can someone suggest to me certain exercises I can do at home or in the car( I do lot of driving)?
Is there foods, other than celery, that has no fat and very little calories that I can eat? ( I hate celery)
Should I detox? I have lowered my calorie intake to 1500 or less, but should I go lower?
I would really appreciate some guidance.
Answer
Sounds like you have the basic building blocks of a healthy diet. Congratulations! Many people never get that far.
I started a program last year, and I have been in maintenance mode for 8 months so far. You are doing the right thing by starting slowly. You might want to tweak what you are eating to make sure that you are getting all the nutrition you are supposed to get. Are you getting 5-8 servings of fruit and vegetables a day? Are you getting 25g of fiber a day (that REALLY helps with feeling full)? Detox doesn't sound necessary, and if you are eating enough fiber and drinking 8 glasses of water a day - that will... er... get you regular and take out anything that's been sticking around too long. Water will also help you feel full.
If you are reading weightloss books, start taking notes. If you read something that really makes sense to you, write it down on a notecard. Then, stop obsessing over it. It sounds like your current calorie intake is fine if you are consistently exercising. If you go too low, you are in danger of hitting starvation mode.
For food, I love broccoli - I keep the frozen stuff with low-fat cheese sauce in my freezer for snacking. I have no-sugar added applesauce cups at work (50 calories a serving), along with mini whole wheat bagels (120 calories and high in fiber). A turkey sandwich on Low-cal, High fiber bread is 130 calories. The fruit bowl in the house is always stocked, and I just can't seem to buy enough bananas. As for exercise, I have a jogging trampoline in front of the TV - it's not the same as going for a run, but it still gets me moving instead of lying on the couch.
Good luck!
Sounds like you have the basic building blocks of a healthy diet. Congratulations! Many people never get that far.
I started a program last year, and I have been in maintenance mode for 8 months so far. You are doing the right thing by starting slowly. You might want to tweak what you are eating to make sure that you are getting all the nutrition you are supposed to get. Are you getting 5-8 servings of fruit and vegetables a day? Are you getting 25g of fiber a day (that REALLY helps with feeling full)? Detox doesn't sound necessary, and if you are eating enough fiber and drinking 8 glasses of water a day - that will... er... get you regular and take out anything that's been sticking around too long. Water will also help you feel full.
If you are reading weightloss books, start taking notes. If you read something that really makes sense to you, write it down on a notecard. Then, stop obsessing over it. It sounds like your current calorie intake is fine if you are consistently exercising. If you go too low, you are in danger of hitting starvation mode.
For food, I love broccoli - I keep the frozen stuff with low-fat cheese sauce in my freezer for snacking. I have no-sugar added applesauce cups at work (50 calories a serving), along with mini whole wheat bagels (120 calories and high in fiber). A turkey sandwich on Low-cal, High fiber bread is 130 calories. The fruit bowl in the house is always stocked, and I just can't seem to buy enough bananas. As for exercise, I have a jogging trampoline in front of the TV - it's not the same as going for a run, but it still gets me moving instead of lying on the couch.
Good luck!
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